When it rains it pours

Whelp we officially got the big bad "D" word...... So on top of fertility treatment we now have a Deployment looming over our heads. Do to OPSEC I will not be giving away any information surrounding the deployment, however I will blog about our lives in preparation for it as well as throughout it.

 

 

 

So what does this mean for our treatment.......... Well it means we have no choice but to continue IUI full force now. Now we are adding a trigger shot along with it. You might ask why don't we just take a break and continue when he gets back. Well to answer this is simple. 1. I'm not getting any younger, and age is a huge factor for us. 2. If we take a brake we have to start over. So we are going to continue this route. We are getting information on freezing his sperm and me continue doing the IUI while hes gone but as of right now this option is not set in stone due to cost. For us the cost of freezing needs to be reasonable, yes when hes deployed we get extra pay however if the fees are going to cost more than that extra pay it will not remotely be feasible for us to do that option. We have high hopes that we will be successful before he leaves.  

 

What scares me is that there is a chance that he will miss alot of things dealing with a pregnancy. He won't get to feel the kicks and movements. He won't be there for appointments. Hell he might not even be there for a delivery. But to us those things don't outweigh the reward at the end. We have alot of support from family and friends so I won't be all alone. Also with all the technology it will almost be like he's here.

 

Dont forget about the fundraiser our amazing friends have organized to help us with the costs that TICARE isnt covering.

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Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for all of your support throughout this jouney.